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THANK YOU FOR A REWARDING CONFERENCE!

Kevin’s Song concluded its 8th annual statewide Conference on Suicide: Continuing the Conversation in Plymouth, Michigan, January 25-27, 2024, with attendees engaging in thought-provoking keynote and breakout sessions, connecting with local and national experts, advocates, educators and clinicians and celebrating achievements. More than 300 attendees, speakers and volunteers registered for the conference, with representation from every corner of Michigan and from 7 different states.

Suicide prevention and mental health advocates including Thomas Joiner, PhD, Michael Anestis, PhD, Tony Thrasher, DO, Kathryn Goetzke and Hayley Watson inspired attendees through presentations of new and fresh approaches to suicide prevention.  Through 11 keynote presentations and 21 breakout sessions, speakers addressed the latest research and information about risk assessment, treatment options and the need for more inclusive access to mental health services.

“Our gathering at the Kevin’s Song conference, symbolizes a powerful opportunity to come together, exchange ideas, and foster meaningful connections,” says Jennifer Fair Margraf, Executive Director of Kevin’s Song. “The annual conference offers engaging presentations, transformative breakout sessions, a chance for attendees to exchange resources and share effective prevention strategies. Together, we are building new pathways to prevention, overcoming formidable barriers, and creating opportunities to redefine suicide prevention for the future. The impact of this conference reaches far beyond those few days, resonating in our local communities and continuing the conversation to reduce suicide and eradicate stigma.”

Other conference highlights included preconference training in QPR, safeTALK and AMSR; a panel discussion about the state of suicide prevention in the State of Michigan; recognition of Gigi Colombini, LMSW, recipient of the 2024 Kevin’s Song Saving A Life award; stories of hope from attempt and loss survivors; and a Concert of Hope and Healing performed by students from the University of Michigan Musical Theatre Department

“It has been my honor to attend each and every one of these annual events, and moreover, my attendance has enabled me to witness firsthand the growth and the energy generated by this meeting, “ says Thomas E. Joiner, Ph.D., The Robert O. Lawton Distinguished Professor of Psychology, Florida State University.  “The good that they are accomplishing on behalf of those bereaved by suicide and others is considerable and occurs year-round; their footprint is in Michigan, where they have risen to prominence as an influential suicide prevention organization, and it is growing beyond Michigan regionally and nationally.”

“I have been involved with the Kevin’s Song conference for quite a few years and have watched it grow from a small, tightly knit local effort to a large, tightly knit national effort,” commented Bart Andrews, Ph.D., Chief Clinical Officer, Behavioral Health Response, Inc., “Each year this conference gets bigger and each year more amazing things happen because of this conference.”

“The reach of the Kevin’s Song conference extends far beyond Plymouth, Michigan, far beyond the classrooms and universities, and engages us to continue the fight against suicide within our local communities,” says Margraf.  “Together, we are the builders of hope for a world without suicide.”

 


 

Gail Urso, Cofounder of Kevin’s Song, named The American Association of Suicidology 2023 Loss Survivor Award Recipient

The American Association of Suicidology (AAS), the world’s largest membership-based suicide prevention organization, has announced that Gail Urso, Cofounder of Kevin’s Song, is the recipient of the 2023 Loss Survivor Award. The award was presented in April at the 56th Annual AAS Conference in Portland, Oregon.

“We received more than sixty submissions from across the world for 2023 Annual Awards and we could not be prouder of this year’s winners,” said AAS President & CEO Leeann Sherman, MPS, CAE. “Due to her extraordinary commitment to supporting other families, Gail stands out among the many courageous and generous loss survivors active in our community. We are happy to present her with this prestigious award.”

The Loss Survivor Award has been given since 1995 to acknowledge ways in which survivors of suicide transform the trauma of their loss into suicide prevention efforts and/or survivor support.

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Additional Information

Please Listen… Students Talk About Mental Health and Suicide Awareness

Rates of suicide continue to rise across the demographic spectrum and certainly among school-age youth. For years, suicide and mental health issues were subjects to be avoided, hidden behind a veil of stigma or fear. Now, hopefully we know differently. But in our conversations, are we really hearing what students have to say about anxiety, depression, mental health or the pain their friends and peers are feeling. What do they want from teachers, parents and the others in their lives?

As part of the national Well Beings Tour, Detroit Public TV is teaming with Kevin’s Song and other local organizations to create a virtual conversation addressing their vital, often life-saving issues. We will listen to a diverse group of students who will talk about their lives, their feelings and their concerns. And we will respond.


Book of The Month

 

It’s OK That You’re Not OK

By Megan Devine

 

When a painful loss or life-shattering event upends your world, here is the first thing to know: there is nothing wrong with grief. “Grief is simply love in its most wild and painful form,” says Megan Devine. “It is a natural and sane response to loss.”

So, why does our culture treat grief like a disease to be cured as quickly as possible?

In It’s OK That You’re Not OK, Megan Devine offers a profound new approach to both the experience of grief and the way we try to help others who have endured tragedy. Having experienced grief from both sides―as both a therapist and as a woman who witnessed the accidental drowning of her beloved partner―Megan writes with deep insight about the unspoken truths of loss, love, and healing. She debunks the culturally prescribed goal of returning to a normal, “happy” life, replacing it with a far healthier middle path, one that invites us to build a life alongside grief rather than seeking to overcome it. In this compelling and heartful book, you’ll learn:

  • Why well-meaning advice, therapy, and spiritual wisdom so often end up making it harder for people in grief.
  • How challenging the myths of grief―doing away with stages, timetables, and unrealistic ideals about how grief should unfold―allows us to accept grief as a mystery to be honored instead of a problem to solve.
  • Practical guidance for managing stress, improving sleep, and decreasing anxiety without trying to “fix” your pain.
  • How to help the people you love―with essays to teach us the best skills, checklists, and suggestions for supporting and comforting others through the grieving process

Many people who have suffered a loss feel judged, dismissed, and misunderstood by a culture that wants to “solve” grief. Megan writes, “Grief no more needs a solution than love needs a solution.” Through stories, research, life tips, and creative and mindfulness-based practices, she offers a unique guide through an experience we all must face―in our personal lives, in the lives of those we love, and in the wider world.

It’s OK That You’re Not OK is a book for grieving people, those who love them, and all those seeking to love themselves―and each other―better.

 

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Dr. Brian Ahmedani and Nancy Buyle, Co-Chairs of the Michigan Suicide Prevention Commission and members of the With One Voice Advisory Board updated Kevin’s Song Conference attendees on the Commission’s progress to date, including focus group findings, the timetable for presenting recommendations to the full Commission in March, and work to date by the four sub-committees: Policy… Data… Special Populations… and the Work Force.

If you’d like to follow the work of the Commission, it meets on the third Friday of every month at 10:30 AM. Or, you can contact James Bell at bellj10@michigan.gov.

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“We Need to Talk” is a 30-minute film produced by Kevin’s Song and funded by the Community Foundation for Southeast Michigan and the Klingler Family Foundation. The film documents effective suicide prevention initiatives being used in schools and communities. Profiled in this video are the Prepare-U curriculum at West Bloomfield High School, The  U-Matter teen program developed by Rabbi Yarden Blumstein for Friendship Circle, the University of Michigan’s Peer-To-Peer school outreach program and The SHED, an after-school facility for youth recently opened by Dennis Liegghio, founder of Know Resolve.

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“Saving Lives, Preventing Youth Suicide”

 

 

Conceived by Kevin’s Song and sponsored by the Children’s Foundation, this 3-part series was produced in partnership with Detroit Public Television. Hosted by prominent Michigan journalist, Cynthia Canty each 60-minute program includes interviews with mental health professionals, educators and community leaders and covers topics ranging from the impact of social media on youth to building resilience to successful intervention strategies.

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Videos


“Singing Kevin’s Song” Interviews with a high school counsellor, a former collegiate athlete, a researcher, and the parents of a high school student lost to suicide reveal their personal and painful insights into dealing with the suicide epidemic. Produced by James McGovern. (28 minutes)

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“Death is Not the Answer”. Award winning producer-director Keith Famie tackles the tough issues of understanding depression and mental illness. (58 minutes).

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“The S Word”. The stigma that so often prevents honest discussion, and often times death, is the subject of this compelling documentary by Lisa Klein. (98 minutes)

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Podcasts



“Life After Suicide”- Dr. Jennifer Ashton. Dr. Jennifer Ashton, ABC News’ Chief Medical Correspondent, draws from her own tragic experience to explore the aftermath of suicide and sudden loss, and, like her new book “Life After Suicide,” the podcast offers a six-part roadmap for survivors.

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